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MARRIAGE SOS INTENSIVE™

Six weeks of strategic 1:1 sessions to rescue your marriage, reunite your family, and reclaim yourself.
Powered by the D.O.P.E. Protocol™.

Built by a Dad. For Dads. This is not therapy or counseling.
Just a proven operating system that works.

“No other success in business can compensate for failure in the home.”

— David O. McKay Brother, if that quote punched you in the gut… you're in the right place.

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  • Declan helps with common questions, objections, and next steps toward rescuing your marriage, euniting your family and reclaiming yourself.

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What You’ll Get Inside The Intensive:

This is the meat and potatoes, the exact proprietary frameworks, tools, and support you need to reclaim yourself, rescue your marriage, and reunite your family.

  • Six intensive 1:1 strategic sessions — Direct intervention for real breakthroughs
  • The D.O.P.E. Protocol™ — Discovery, Optimisation, Prioritisation, Evolution
  • Marriage SOS Leadership Toolkit + Playbook — Frameworks designed for high-performing fathers
  • Private Brotherhood & Alumni Community — Iron sharpens iron

Here’s What We’re NOT Going To Do Together:

❌ Traditional Counseling

Most counselors mean well, but they focus on blame and communication tips while missing the deeper issues. They treat symptoms instead of fixing what’s broken underneath.

❌ Begging Or Pleading

Walking on eggshells or being “nicer” only creates more distance. You’ve probably tried this and seen how it backfired.

❌ Becoming Less Than Who You Are

Your drive and ambition aren’t the problem. The real issue is trying to apply your work operating system at home. Different environment, different rules.

❌ Choosing Work vs. Family

You don’t have to sacrifice success at work to be present at home. The same qualities that made you successful can serve your family when applied properly.

❌ Becoming A Weekend Dad

You don’t have to accept seeing your kids every other Thursday. That’s not the legacy you want to leave and it’s not what has to happen here.

The D.O.P.E. Protocol™ Process: The Four Critical Shifts

A systematic operating system for rescuing your marriage and restoring leadership at home: Discovery, Optimisation, Prioritisation, Evolution.

🔎 Discover Your Blind Spots

  • Run a complete situational analysis to identify blind spots and gaps.
  • Clarity on exactly what created the disconnection, not finger pointing.
  • Map the path to become the man she’d be crazy to leave.

⚙️ Optimise Your Mind & Emotions

  • Clear unconscious programming sabotaging your intimacy and connection at home.
  • Release negative emotions (anger, sadness, fear, hurt, and guilt) that have been stored for decades.
  • Operate from genuine strength instead of reactive patterns.

📅 Prioritise Your Time & Values

  • Audit how you spend time versus what you say matters most.
  • Realign daily operations with your core values and commitments.
  • Create congruent leadership your wife and kids can see and feel.

🔥 Evolve Into Limitless Dad

  • Upgrade your identity into a grounded, respected Limitless Dad.
  • Reignite respect and attraction through authentic presence.
  • Lead your family with clarity, presence, and consistency.
MY STORY: A LIMITLESS DAD

From Empty Shell To Limitless Dad

I know what it feels like to look in the mirror and not recognise the man staring back. Successful on paper, but empty in reality.

This is my lived experience. I walked this road myself.

And now I will personally guide you through the same path I took so you can reclaim yourself, your marriage, and your family.

When I Was At Rock Bottom…

I was operating in overdrive, pouring everything into work, leaving nothing for home.

My marriage felt fragile, my son felt distant, and I felt like a stranger in my own skin.

I kept trying to talk my way out of problems I had behaved my way into and it never worked.

The Catalyst That Changed Everything…

The turning point came when I finally stopped blaming circumstances and took radical responsibility.

Instead of chasing, defending, or numbing out, I turned inward.

I faced the blind spots that had been sabotaging me and did the deep inner work to dismantle them.

The Transformation That Took Place...

What changed wasn’t surface-level tips, it was identity.

I rebuilt and became calm under pressure, sought clarity in conflict, and consistency in how I showed up.

My wife saw the man she could trust again. My son experienced the Dad he deserved. I became what I now call a Limitless Dad — grounded, respected, and leading with presence and love.

Chris

I Left Rockbottom Behind For Good

I was experiencing a lot of negative stories filling my mind. I told myself I wasn't a good person. Once I shifted this narrative, I discovered myself and what makes me happy. I deserve to be happy and I now honor it. Trust Steve to guide you on a journey back home to yourself!

Chris
★★★★★
Gary

The Blueprint Saved My Life

I was struggling with my past, acceptance of who I was, my traumas, I was a wreck. I was able to shift "I am not enough" and putting others before myself. I am finally free to create my future. Thanks for continuing to show up for me. Love you brother!

Gary
★★★★★
Richo

The Rescue I Needed

Beyond grateful for Steve and his program. He helped me radically shift my perspective on life. I came to rescue my marriage and ended up reclaiming myself in the process. He helped me identify and heal my childhood abandonment wound. Best decision having Steve in my corner!

Richo
★★★★★

The Complete Marriage SOS Bonus Stack

Saving your marriage isn’t just about one breakthrough, it’s about having the right tools, frameworks, and support to carry you through. That’s why I’ve put together powerful bonuses to reinforce your progress, accelerate your results, and give you tools you can lean on to strengthen yourself as a man, a husband, and a father...for life.

  • Marriage SOS Leadership Toolkit: Battle-tested frameworks and daily practices for maintaining your edge at home $97 Value
  • The Marriage SOS Playbook: Step-by-step guide with exercises designed specifically for high-performing Dads $197 Value
  • Three Deep Dive Empathetic Listening Sessions: Additional 1:1 expert sessions for handling complex situations and maintaining momentum $350 Value
  • Attachment Style Mastery Workshop: Decode your relationship patterns and learn to leverage your psychology for deeper connection $397 Value
  • Inner Game Transformation Session: Specialised work to heal the patterns that have been sabotaging your leadership $500 Value
  • Brotherhood Access & Alumni Community: Lifetime connection to men who've walked this path and emerged stronger Priceless
Total Bonus Value: $1,541 + Priceless Brotherhood

Commitment & Approach

This only works when we both show up. I’ll bring the strategy, structure, and pressure-tested systems. You bring courage, honesty, and consistent action. That’s the partnership that rescues marriages.

MY PART My Commitment
  • Deliver a clear, tactical plan each week that moves the needle.
  • Coach you with empathy, direct feedback, zero judgement, and absolute confidentiality.
  • Equip you with the D.O.P.E. Protocol™ tools to stay grounded under pressure.
  • Be available for support between sessions (within agreed channels and hours).
YOUR PART Your Commitment
  • Show up on time, prepared, and fully present for every session.
  • Complete the dreamwork and apply the frameworks in real conversations at home.
  • Communicate honestly: wins, setbacks, triggers, so we can course-correct fast.
  • Lead with integrity: no chasing, no defensiveness, radical responsibility always.

Partnership Standard: If you show up and do the work, I’ll meet you more than halfway. I’ll be in your corner every step of the way, however I can’t want your transformation more than you do.

Investment & Guarantee

Choose the path that fits your cashflow. Same program. Same outcome.

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Pay in Full

Best value. Locks in your commitment from day one.

$3600
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  • Six weeks of 1:1 strategic intervention
  • Access to the Complete Marriage SOS Arsenal + Bonus Stack
  • Private Brotherhood & Alumni Community
  • Worksheets, tools, and our proven proprietary frameworks for busy Dads
Secure My Spot — Pay in Full

Weekly Payment Plan

Spread the investment across the program duration.

$700
per week × 6 weeks
  • Full program access with weekly cadence
  • All tools, resources, and community included
  • Same outcomes when you show the work
Start with Weekly Plan
Payment plan totals slightly higher than Pay in Full.
GUARANTEE Action-Backed Confidence Guarantee
Follow the D.O.P.E. Protocol exactly as taught for all 6 weeks. If you don't experience breakthrough moments and renewed hope in your relationship, I'll extend your access and work with you personally until you do.

Here’s my commitment to you:
If you show up and do the work, I'll meet you more than halfway. I'll be in your corner every step of the way. But this has to be a true partnership. I can't want your transformation more than you do.
This isn’t about me making promises I can’t control. It’s about two men committed to the same outcome: getting your family back and keeping them. You bring the commitment. I’ll bring everything else. That’s the partnership that creates real transformation.

Frequently Asked Questions

I know what you’re thinking. Every Dad who finds himself here has the same doubts swirling in his head: “Do I really have time for this? What if it doesn’t work? What if I fail again?”

You’re not alone. These questions don’t make you weak, they make you human. And the very fact you’re asking them tells me you care enough to fight for your family.

So let’s get straight to it. Here are the tough questions most Dads think and the answers you need before you take your next step.

1. I’m busy, how much time does this actually take?

The intensive is designed to fit around a Dad’s schedule, 6 weeks, one coaching call a week, and short tactical exercises you can apply immediately at home. It’s not about adding pressure, it’s about removing chaos and giving you clarity.

2. I’ve tried therapy or coaching before, why will this be different?

Most therapy is about talking in circles, focusing on the past, or waiting for your wife to change. This isn’t that. The Marriage SOS Intensive is built on the D.O.P.E. Protocol™, a proven step-by-step blueprint designed for Dads who need clarity and action, not generic theory. You’ll clear emotional triggers, rebuild respect, and lead from presence.

3. What if my Wife isn’t willing to do the work, can this still help?

Yes. You can’t control her choices, but you can control how you show up. When you shift your state, identity, and leadership, your marriage dynamic changes. Often, your wife responds naturally once she feels safety and respect again. But even if she doesn’t engage right away, you’ll have the tools to stand tall and lead your family with certainty.

4. How soon will I see results?

Many Dads notice a shift in themselves and how their wife responds within the first two weeks. Change starts the moment you decide to step in. You’ll feel calmer, clearer, and more in control almost immediately because you’ll finally have a plan instead of second guessing your every move.

5. What if I fail or it doesn’t work for me?

That fear is normal. But here’s the truth: doing nothing guarantees failure. Taking action gives you a fighting chance. I’ll be in your corner every step of the way, guiding, challenging, and supporting you. You’ll never be left to figure this out alone.

6. Is this really for me?

If you’re a Dad who refuses to settle for being a weekend visitor in your kids’ lives, this is for you. It’s for Dads who want clarity instead of confusion, who are ready to own their role and take radical responsibility. If you’re tired of drifting and ready to lead, you’re in the right place.

7. How much does it cost and why is it worth it?

It’s an investment, yes. But compare it to the cost of divorce - emotionally, financially, and spiritually. What about the debilitating cost of splitting assets. This isn’t just about saving your marriage, it’s about saving yourself, your family, and your legacy. You’ll walk away with tools and frameworks that will serve you for life.

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”
— Marcel Proust
It’s time to see your marriage and yourself through new eyes, brother.

Your family is waiting for the man you’re capable of becoming. The question isn’t whether you can transform, it’s when you will.

The choice is yours. But choose quickly. Good men who are serious about saving their families don’t wait around when they find the right solution.

BETTER YOU. BETTER DAD. HAPPY FAMILY.
Enrolment for Marriage SOS Intensive closes on 21 September 2025. Only 6 spots remain.

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